Hi Carlight and welcome to our cruise mad family
I am sorry that Arcadia didn't live up to expectations. The mini cruises often attract hen/stag parties as they are a cheap way to escape for a weekend. Hopefully future longer cruises that you take will be a better experience...including Arcadia as you won't have the hen/stag groups onboard.
Waiting is often a problem on the larger ships, and when on the ship for a short time, it usually does feel a whole lot worse.
Again, sorry that things didn't go well for you and I hope that you will try a longer cruise next time and be alot more satisfied
