Cruisegirl, thanks for pointing out the thread but it did turn weird after you mentioned it to us. You just never know that is going to happen.
Having grownup being the family mediator, I posted over there recently regarding lacking civility.
Hah ! Many of the posters proved my points by attacking civility !
Some of the "missing links " are alive and well, Darwin would be proud.
I blame the board nannies or hosts as they like to call themselves. It is not easy to be a board nanny but if you take on the job, you have to do it.
A board nanny can and should shut down threads that are flaming, using very vulgar language, etc. There is also thread stalking where a person will seek out all threads their target posts on to flame them.
Delete, lock the topic, ban the people involved...whatever. Some people have to be treated like bad children.
On Cruise Critic imparticular, the board nannies are allowing bad threads to go on way too long.
We are lucky ! I cannot imagine Jeff or Liz tolerating that behavior.
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